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How to Make Better Choices (Without Letting the Past Hold You Back)
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📈 How to Make Better Choices (Without Letting the Past Hold You Back)
Let me open with two quick stories—one where I learned a lesson early, and another where I learned it the hard way.
One of my earliest memories is going to see a “Cheech and Chong” movie with my dad. (Let’s ignore for a moment how odd it is to take an 8-year-old to a movie filled with cursing and pot jokes.)
About halfway through, my dad stood up and said we were leaving. I was confused—why would he “waste” his money by not staying for the whole thing? On the way to the car, he told me, “The money’s already spent, so why make it worse by sitting through something that’s not any good?”
In other words, he didn’t see the point in throwing good time after bad.
Fast forward to 2012, when I first started dating my wife. We had just returned from hiking the Grand Canyon and staying at the famous Phantom Ranch, where we enjoyed their legendary “Hiker’s Stew.”
Wanting to impress her, I decided to recreate the stew at home. Unfortunately, I misread the recipe and added tablespoons of clove instead of the recommended half-teaspoon.
The result?
A clove-flavored disaster.
But instead of tossing it, I forced myself to eat as much as I could, just because I didn’t want to “waste” what I’d made.
Both of these moments are classic examples of the sunk cost fallacy.
My dad had the right approach.
I… definitely did not.
What is the Sunk Cost Fallacy?
The sunk cost fallacy is a common mental trap where we continue investing time, money, or effort into something simply because we’ve already invested so much—even when it’s clearly not working out. Rather than cutting our losses, we “double down,” hoping to justify what we’ve already spent or done.
It’s the feeling of “I’ve come this far, so I might as well keep going”—even if going further just means more pain, frustration, or wasted resources.
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Real-World Examples of the Sunk Cost Fallacy
Here are a few places where this fallacy often shows up in everyday life:
● Movies and Books: Forcing yourself to finish a bad movie or book just because you already paid for it or got halfway through.
● Relationships: Staying in a friendship or romantic relationship long after it’s stopped being healthy, simply because “we’ve been together for years.”
● Careers: Sticking with a job you dislike because you’ve already spent years in the field or invested in a degree.
● Projects: Continuing with a business idea or side project that’s clearly not working, because you’ve already poured time and money into it.
● Memberships and Subscriptions: Continuing to receive monthly subscription boxes, magazines, or online services that no longer interest you, simply because you’ve already paid for several months in advance.
● Food: Forcing yourself to finish a meal you don’t like (hello, clove stew) because you don’t want to “waste” food or money.
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How to Break Free from the Sunk Cost Trap
If you want to avoid falling into this mental pit, here are five steps to help you make better decisions:
1. Acknowledge the Investment
Start by honestly recognizing what you’ve already put in—whether it’s time, money, effort, or emotion. It’s natural to feel a sense of loss or regret, but remember: those resources are already spent. Nothing you do now can recover them. Accepting this reality is the first step toward making smarter decisions going forward.
2. Focus on the Future, Not the Past
Instead of asking, “How do I justify what I’ve already spent?” ask, “What’s the best decision for me from this point forward?” Imagine you’re starting from zero. Would you choose to continue, or would you walk away? The only thing that matters is whether sticking with it will actually improve your situation—regardless of past investments.
3. Set Clear Criteria for Stopping or Changing Course
Before you start a new project, relationship, or commitment, define what “enough” looks like. Set boundaries or milestones that will help you objectively decide when it’s time to reassess. For example, “If I’m not enjoying this book after 50 pages, I’ll put it down,” or “If this business isn’t profitable after six months, I’ll reconsider.” This makes it easier to step away when the time comes.
4. Practice Letting Go in Small Ways
Build your “quitting muscle” by starting with low-stakes decisions. Don’t force yourself to finish a bad meal, movie, or book just because you started. The more you practice letting go of small things, the easier it becomes to walk away from bigger commitments when necessary. Over time, this helps you become more comfortable with change and loss.
5. Reflect and Learn for the Future
If you do find yourself falling for the sunk cost fallacy (we all do sometimes), take a moment to reflect. What emotions or beliefs kept you stuck? What could you do differently next time? Use every experience as a learning opportunity to get better at making decisions that truly serve you.
Final Thoughts
The sunk cost fallacy is one of the most common traps we all fall into—and it’s not always easy to spot in the moment. But if you can learn to recognize it, accept what’s already gone, and focus on what’s best for your future, you’ll free yourself to make smarter, braver choices.
Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is let go and move on. Your time, energy, and happiness are worth more than any sunk cost.
Talk soon,
Steve
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